Dealing With the Aftermath of Abuse

By Danni Moss
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[This article was originally written in early 2008. At that point it had been a little over two years since my marriage ended.
Now, in August, 2009, I am reading back over what I wrote and would like to add some further insight provided by time and the leading [...]

How to Deal with Condemnation in Divorce

This great subject came up on another thread, so I wanted to copy it as it’s own post.
Viktoria said:
…I have a question. I am getting a divorce from an abusive marriage. The thing is that I have been a youth leader for many years and there were several times when I had to talk to [...]

First Steps: Step One — Is the Word True?

By Danni Moss
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This is the second part of a multi-part series entitled How Can I Trust God After Marriage to a “Christian” Abuser?
Before you can even make the first step toward discovering whether you can trust God after being wounded in a “Christian” abusive marriage, you have to go [...]

How Can I Trust God After Marriage to A “Christian” Abuser?

By Danni Moss
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This exchange occurred in one of the comment threads on another article, but I thought it might be beneficial for others as a stand-alone piece by itself.
Mary said:
…I have a lot of unfinished business that I need to work through regarding my relationship with God and the church… I [...]

What’s Next?

So, no sooner do I put the site on static mode than God starts showing me more things to write. LOL! He is so funny that way.
God has made it very clear to me that I need to immerse myself in the positives, rather than the negatives. He has also [...]

Blog Going to Static Mode

In the wee hours of the night, God pointed out this verse to me:
James 5:9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.
Grudge — to make (intransitively, be) in straits, i.e. (by implication) to sigh, murmur, pray inaudibly:–with grief, groan, grudge, sigh.
I have come to believe [...]

Ex-Pastors’ Wives Share Hope in Abuse

Two ex-pastors’ wives have written a book together sharing insights on how to cope with abuse and adultery. The book is titled, Surviving Shattered Dreams: A Story of Hope after Despair, by Yvonne Partyka and Joanne Klinger.
When the women first met they had no idea how much they had in common. As they [...]